I've just made an embarassing discovery: 

 is not the same Courtney who moderates on the Blue Boards.

Right?  I think I'm right.

I also think I've combined many of their comments in my mind so that right now I'm not entirely sure who said/thinks/feels what.  This is one of the problems with me not being able to view profiles on that board...

So sorry, Courtney!   If I've ever left you any comments that didn't make sense, now you know why!